Happy Tuesday everyone! So much has happened since I last wrote. Life has been a whirlwind around here. Some good. Some bad. Always eventful it seems. I can't believe it's been over a month since I last wrote. Seems like a lifetime ago.
Let's recap some highlights with photos:
Rebecca and I went to see "Hamilton" in Columbus. It was AMAZING!
There have been many days where I have felt like this...
I got Rebecca moved into college. It was a relatively easy experience minus delofting her bed, which a friend was able to help her accomplish a few days later. She is enjoying herself so far and is extremely busy with classes and schedules.
In other news without photos:
I am in a new position with Head Start. I returned to work for Head Start but in a different center and in a full day/full year classroom. The hours aren't the best as I have to close now and not get off work until 5:30, but it is where I am supposed to be. Maybe one day I will elaborate on the craziness that was trying to find a suitable job this summer--- including my experience being interviewed by licensing and Children Protective Services 1 week into a new job that I later quit. It has been a bumpy ride for sure.
The boys, especially Ben, are not handling Rebecca being away very well. It has been super rough and emotional around here.
Life is in a rough state right now. But I am taking each day as it is coming and just handling each day as it happens. I have been reading blogs, but not always responding as I have been reading on my phone.
I hope everyone is well. Until next time, I wish you well.
It was a huge change for my youngest when both kids went away to school. Suddenly she was an "only child". Your boys both miss her, but probably the stability and calm she brought to your home. Encourage, if she's willing, a weekly video call so they know they still matter. Encourage them to think through the week about what they want to share with her and one thing they want to know from her. It really does help keep those bonds and might help them feel she's still there for them. Best wishes on your new job. Maybe think about the late start as morning time for yourself after the boys go to school, and the time they might be home after school/ activities, as "their time" with a few responsibilities they help choose as ways you're respecting their self reliance. Change is tough and you all had a lot for many years.
ReplyDeleteBless you. I can't imagine how tough all of these changes have been and all at once. Sending up extra prayers for you all as you all navigate so many new things...new schools, new jobs, and new family dynamics at home. I am happy to hear about your new job and hope it works out for you. I know those long hours can be tough, though. You are doing a great job, fellow mama! I know most of this falls on you to sort out, but I want you to know I see you and the effort you make for your kids. I'm so happy you and Rebecca got to have a little fun and go see Hamilton. So glad to hear she is settling in well at college and enjoying it so far.
ReplyDeleteGood to hear from you. Sending well wishes for good health and an easier go of things in the coming months. Happy to see you've had a little fun in your life along with the downs. Take care!
ReplyDeletePrayers for your health and the ability to adapt well to all the new changes! I enjoy reading your blog.
ReplyDeleteGlad you are taking care of yourself and that things were found in time. Also, glad you are back in job where you are happier. Yikes on the previous job! Transitions can be tough, be kind to yourself, hope the boys have adjusted a bit better now and that Rebecca is doing great at college. And finally, hope you are having a fabulous fall weekend!
ReplyDeleteHi there! I found your blog linked on another blog I followed and I'm glad I did, I enjoyed reading today and will be following! I hope your daughter enjoys college! Our older daughter actually loved dorm life which is funny because I really hated it lol! I hope you have a great rest of your week!!!
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