Happy Monday Tuesday everyone! Hope everyone is having a good day. Sorry I haven't written in a while, but I have been SO busy! I actually started this post yesterday but then got busy with other things and that is just the story of my life right now.
Before I get into being busy, look at what Ben grew! Before the school year ended, his class planted sunflower seeds into cups and each kid brought a cup home. Ben faithfully watered it and then it started to grow. When it outgrew the cup, we transplanted it into a pot outside and yesterday this sunny flower greeted us! Ben was so excited!
I started my new job last Wednesday and it has been a whirlwind. I have come home exhausted each night, but it has been a good exhausted. Trying to get into a routine. My knee has been yelling at me as well, as I have been super active and have had to ice my knee each night.
This weekend, Bill moved out. He actually slept at his apartment on Saturday night. He moved some things Friday and Saturday, and then Sunday my brother came over and helped him move his furniture. He still has boxes here and it is annoying me. But it is what it is and I am really trying not to let it get to me. I have a lot of things that I could say about this, but I won't.
This weekend was busy. Friday Benjamin went to my sister and Ceal's place to spend the night. They had a blast with him, going to the zoo and swimming and just having fun. Saturday morning, Rebecca, Jacob and I went to the grocery store and I am trying to figure out meals that are easy to make or that I can make ahead so that Rebecca can get them cooked or at least started for me as I work until 6pm. After we got home and I put groceries away, Rebecca and I disassembled the bed that Bill was taking and we put together my new bed. It is a simple black metal frame and I got a new comforter set that I love! It turned out really cute.
Then it was off to my parents' house for a hot dog and sundae party for the 4th of July weekend. We had a build your own hot dog party, where my mom had TONS of toppings and instructions for building different hot dogs. I had a California dog-- which had mayo, avocado, tomato, lettuce, bacon, and a hot dog. It was super yummy. I also had a Chicago dog... which had neon green relish, mustard, onions, and I can't remember what else. LOL
We also lit sparklers with the kids and they loved them.
Sunday was the day that Bill moved his furniture out and I spent the day organizing my living room and dining room. Rebecca and I also went to Goodwill and Walmart as I was looking for capris to wear for work. I realized I have very few clothes that are appropriate for preschool lead teacher so that was my mission. I found 2 pairs of pants and a couple of tops. Rebecca also confessed that she didn't want to be home while her dad was moving out.
Yesterday, I ended up running a few errands in the morning. Then I spent the day decorating my living room walls and doing laundry. I also had to do an online class for my new job that was almost 4 hours of online training.
Today is the 4th of July and honestly we haven't done anything. It was hot here today, close to 100 degrees so we just stayed in. I worked on moving some things around my bedroom and got all the laundry folded. I also made a pasta dish for a freezer asset, cooked rice for dinner tomorrow night and made meatball subs for dinner. There will be no fireworks for us tonight.
Things are weird now that Bill has moved out. He got upset when I asked for the key back. The boys went to his apartment yesterday and when he dropped them back off, the boys said that their dad told them he wasn't coming in as I have negative energy. Whatever that is supposed to mean. Things are coming together. I still have to figure out my laptop, printer, art supplies, catch all area. I also need to paint my bookcase that I brought upstairs from the basement. My bedroom is also a work in progress. I intentionally took it somewhat easy today though as my knee was KILLING me last night and I have over done it lately.
Tomorrow is back to work and I hope the rest of this week goes well.
What are you guys up to today? Anyone celebrating the Fourth of July? Do you have favorite hot dog toppings?
I've been thinking of you and the kids. Starting a new life again no matter the circumstances is hard. You are doing what needs to be done and getting done what is necessary. If that's perceived as negative, just ignore. Like me, your focus has to be on you and your kids. I know the situation is not the same, but you're dealing with tremendous change. Be kind to yourself.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you, my friend. You are strong and your love of your children will make you even stronger during this hard time. Your new job sounds awesome! Hugs and prayers. P.S. LOVE the hot dog idea!
ReplyDeleteLove the bright cheery colors of your new comforter set! And that pillow, super cute!
ReplyDeleteHope you will focus on you and not what other people say or think about you. They are not the ones actually living your life. Live your best life according to you!
I love your new comforter! It sounds like things are coming together. Glad to hear the new job is going well! And yes, little kids are so awesome and so exhausting! Haha! They were my favorite age group to work with when I was a librarian.
ReplyDeleteStill thinking of you and the kids as you navigate this new normal. I know it can’t be easy when people try to make things difficult. You are doing a great job and things will come together in the house, so please don’t overdo it. I can’t imagine how tough this is, but I’m so glad you have the support of your family and your kids to lean on and love each other through this. You take care!
Love the pillow. Great advice! 😉 We had a hot 4th here too. Stayed inside. Did nothing. No regrets.
ReplyDeleteWe stayed in and did nothing. I like mustard or mustard and Miracle Whip. OR, I want chili no beans, and cheese.
ReplyDeleteI do understand wanting things gone! Now!
Maybe you could do things like cook a lot of hamburger meat and freeze it in meal portions. Or, cook lots of chicken and have daughter take it off the bone and you can freeze in meal portions.
He just might be the one bringing in the negative energy. You are a very good mother. Take it easy on the knee if you can.
Remember, all three of your children are old enough to do things around the house. You can do this. You can do hard things.
I meant to say that now I have confidence to try to grow a sunflower in a pot. Good job. What does he think about it following the sun? I am glad you found clothes to wear at work without breaking the bank.
DeleteEcho the comments about being kind to yourself. I went through something similar when my kids were 3 and 5. I found that it was very helpful to have a crockpot. Look for takeout food deals-for example, on Tuesday July 11th, it is free Slurpee Day at 7/11. if you have one nearby, that could be a dinnertime or after dinner treat which is totally free. There are websites which show food or restaurant deals each month. Maybe designate one week day night as laundry/movie night-where everyone pitches in and folds their own clothing as you watch a movie together. That way, you won't have to do it on the weekend. I remember accepting all invitations from others that first summer, even though I was tired-being with other adults lifted my spirits. If you feel that you (or the kids) need counseling, see if there are any income-based programs near you. The decorating that you have been doing looks great-give yourself lots of kudos for that!!
ReplyDeleteLove your new comforter set, so cheerful! Prayers that things remain kind and peaceful as you continue to navigate this new chapter. Sounds like you're doing great (other than the knee, ouch! Be easy on it) by the way. Be kind to yourself. Crockpot? I always struggle on nights I work until 6 so I get that one. Hope you have a wonderful new week and that it isn't quite as exhausting.
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